Journal
Writings From My Journal Discussed
Journal – Introduction
Introduction I began writing this journal in 2003. I wanted to record my feelings and also the events leading up to...
Does He Deliberately Act To Hurt? #4 From My Journal
When I wrote this journal I thought he deliberately said and did things to hurt me. What I have learned is that...
Non Stop Criticism From The Narcissist #3 – From My Journal
Criticism is all about control. Looking at these stories through the lens of narcissism it is clear to me now that...
Children
Parenthood With A Narcissist
Parenthood With a Narcissist - Emotional Abandonment “People with personality disorders have to create the illusion of...
Bullying Siblings 2010 Letter To Gordon
This is what happens when your children witness you being verbally and emotinally abused their entire life. They...
Admitting Triangulation Using the Children
In this text the narcissist Gordon admits to using the children in a triangulation against me. He uses them to...
A Study On Parental Alienation by University of Worcester
The University of Worcester conducted a study called "Coercive Control Of Woman as Mothers via Strategic Mother- Child...
Narcissistic Fathers Damage Their Children
These videos explain the effects of a narcissistic father on his children. It is important to realise what has...
Manipulation and Blackmail Using The Children
Gordon manipulates and blackmails me and the children for financial gain. On 20th January 2008 a year after the...
Parental Alienation
How The Psychopath Views His Children
How does The Narcissistic Father Use His Children? With thanks to Sam Vakin who explains it beautifully. The...
How To Cope With Narcissistic Parental Alienation
This article from this website explains what parental alienation is and how to deal with it. Coping with Narcissistic...
How He Alienated My Children
He gradually and systematically alienated my children against me over many years. In fact since the day they were born...
What Parental Alienation Is And The Signs
Parental Alienation by The Narcissist Brainwashing the Child into Hating the Target Parent In this video Dr...
Divorce
He Took 6 Months to Return Divorce Papers
Despite him telling his solicitors Pannones that he was intending to divorce me and that I had physically assaulted...
The Narcissist Shows Physical Violence
The narcissist only showed physical violence on one occasion. It was in April 2007 after Gordon meet his new 'friend'...
The Narcissist Explains Why We Divorced!
It's all my fault! This is a great example of blame and lack of accountability. Gordon says we split up because I...
Explaining My Views On Mediation to The Narcissist
At the start of the divorce it was suggested by my solicitor that I try mediation with Gordon to save us both large...
Mimicking By The Narcissist Is One Form Of Abuse
The Smirk is a Provocative Tool Used By The Lesser Narcissist like Gordon. Gordon likes to use non verbal abuse as a...
When I Thought The Narcissist Has Passive Aggressive PD!
I came across a website about Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder which fitted the behaviours of Gordon perfectly!...
Letters
My Letter About How He Treats His Children
In January 2000 I wrote this about what I saw when Gordon interacted with the children. I was so upset. I found the...
“Mum Won’t Let Me See You” Narcissist LIES!
The narcissist liked to manipulate situations with the children whereby he could make the claim that, "Mum won't let...
Verbal & Emotional Abuse Christmas 2007
This is a letter written to the narcissist after hosting Christmas for him and his family during Christmas 2007. The...
Verbal Abuse Lies & Boundary Violation New Year 2007
Christmas and New Year 2007 was hell! For some stupid reason I decided to host his family for a meal and family get...
Emotional Abandonment By The Narcissist
This letter describes what my life was like living with the narcissist. It was written in January 2007. The letter...
Narcissist Hates Me Going To The Gym
The narcissist hated me going to the gym. He moaned and complained about it non stop. He insulted me, verbally abused...
My Story
Smearing By The Narcissist
During the contact I had with my sister which you can read about here she told me an interesting piece of information...
How Do I Know My Sister Is A Narcissist
Background My second to youngest sibling B, is eighteen years younger than me. I witnessed first hand how she was...
Verbal Abuse I Received Daily from The Narcissist
Gordon started the verbal abuse, put down, undermining me, belittling me as soon as we met. I was used to being...
Legacy
Video Footage Of The Narcissist In Action
These video clips shows the narcissist aged about 35 telling his mother to shut up and laughing and ridiculing her;...
Resources
What Is Narcissism?
Knowing what a narcissist is, and understanding how they behave is very useful as this knowledge will save you much...
A Description of The Narcissist- How He Thinks
This video describes how Gordon - a lesser narcissist thinks. The way a particular narcissist behaves is dependent on...
Why Narcissists Have No Empathy
Gordon has no empathy. Any demonstration of 'empathy' was false and used as facade management to fool people into...
Contradiction and Countering By The Narcissist
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Covert Malignant Narcissist – Human in Name Only
Gordon behaved exactly the way this video describes. The quote in the video which says that a covert malignant...
Characteristics Of Narcissists and Non-Narcissists
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