by Julie Townsend | Feb 10, 2022 | Children
Parenthood With a Narcissist – Emotional Abandonment “People with personality disorders have to create the illusion of a relationship while protecting themselves from a real relationship which would stir up all those bad feelings”. James F Masterson....
by Julie Townsend | Jan 10, 2022 | Children
This is what happens when your children witness you being verbally and emotinally abused their entire life. They become bullies themselves. My youngest daughter complained that her brother and sister were verbally abusing her and bullying her. I was shocked and...
by Julie Townsend | Jan 10, 2022 | Children
In this text the narcissist Gordon admits to using the children in a triangulation against me. He uses them to threaten and manipulate me. He used the standard abusive language he uses regularly. “Everyone thinks its dispicable that you use the children like...
by Julie Townsend | Jan 2, 2022 | Children
The University of Worcester conducted a study called “Coercive Control Of Woman as Mothers via Strategic Mother- Child Separation”. The link to the study is here. The study looks at the behaviour of abusive men and their strategies to undermine the...
by Julie Townsend | Dec 1, 2021 | Children
These videos explain the effects of a narcissistic father on his children. It is important to realise what has happened to you and to understand how it affects the rest of your life and your relationships. The first video explains coercive control and how it works in...
by Julie Townsend | Nov 9, 2021 | Children
Gordon manipulates and blackmails me and the children for financial gain. On 20th January 2008 a year after the divorce was filed, Gordon is still arguing over the money. ‘50:50 or nothing’ he states which is why he refuses to release the money for the mortgage or...