by Julie Townsend | Nov 10, 2021 | Divorce
At the start of the divorce it was suggested by my solicitor that I try mediation with Gordon to save us both large solicitors fees and reduce conflict. Not knowing that he was a narcissist I thought it might work although by now I had experienced first hand his...
by Julie Townsend | Nov 9, 2021 | Children
Gordon manipulates and blackmails me and the children for financial gain. On 20th January 2008 a year after the divorce was filed, Gordon is still arguing over the money. ‘50:50 or nothing’ he states which is why he refuses to release the money for the mortgage or...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 24, 2021 | My Story
I am the oldest child of six. I am the family scapegoat and the hero child. I am ‘hard’ because I tell it like it is and see straight though the façade. I was the family fixer, the hero for a large part of my life – until I woke up. My father, ...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 23, 2021 | Children
Gordon sent these e-mails to tell me that he was very busy in June, July and August 2008 and needed to change his times with the children. However, this contradicts his e-mails sent in January 2008 where he threatened that he was going to get an ’emergency court...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 23, 2021 | Journal
Criticism is all about control. Looking at these stories through the lens of narcissism it is clear to me now that they are all about Gordon wanting to gain control, maintain control, and kill any threats to his control. Gordon’s narcissistic thinking means...
