Smearing By The Narcissist

Smearing By The Narcissist

During the contact I had with my sister which you can read about here she told me an interesting piece of information that stunned me. Gordon has been smearing me since day one! Even at my fathers funeral he took the opportunity to tell everyone what I was like. That...
How Do I Know My Sister Is A Narcissist

How Do I Know My Sister Is A Narcissist

Background My second to youngest sibling B, is eighteen years younger than me. I witnessed first hand how she was neglected by my narcissistic mother and violent narcissist father. She was born to the second group of siblings. I am the oldest of the first three, all...
Verbal Abuse I Received Daily from The Narcissist

Verbal Abuse I Received Daily from The Narcissist

Gordon started the verbal abuse, put down, undermining me, belittling me as soon as we met. I was used to being emotionally abused and ignored by my narcissistic parents so Gordon treated me in a manner which was familiar to me.  I met quite a lot of nice men but they...
My Story – The Early Years

My Story – The Early Years

 I began writing a journal in 2003. I wanted to record my feelings and also the events leading up to the inevitable breakdown of my 27-year marriage to Gordon. I wanted my children to understand how hard I tried to fix the relationship and why, in the end, I could no...
Poor Me Face Rubbing

Poor Me Face Rubbing

Gordon was a  ‘poor me’ victim type of narcissist. He sighed, huffed and puffed and rubbed his face a lot. This gesture expressed his whole attitude to life! It’s funny now but not at the time, it drove me mad and had such a detrimental effect on our...