by Julie Townsend | Feb 9, 2022 | My Story
During the contact I had with my sister which you can read about here she told me an interesting piece of information that stunned me. Gordon has been smearing me since day one! Even at my fathers funeral he took the opportunity to tell everyone what I was like. That...
by Julie Townsend | Jan 8, 2022 | My Story
Background My second to youngest sibling B, is eighteen years younger than me. I witnessed first hand how she was neglected by my narcissistic mother and violent narcissist father. She was born to the second group of siblings. I am the oldest of the first three, all...
by Julie Townsend | Jan 2, 2022 | My Story
Gordon started the verbal abuse, put down, undermining me, belittling me as soon as we met. I was used to being emotionally abused and ignored by my narcissistic parents so Gordon treated me in a manner which was familiar to me. I met quite a lot of nice men but they...
by Julie Townsend | Nov 16, 2021 | My Story
Gordon hated me with a deep contempt for everything about me. This video called ‘You are a toaster’ explains that to a narcissist I only realised the true extent of his hatred recently when he has stooped so low as to brainwash my daughters into hating me....
by Julie Townsend | Nov 13, 2021 | My Story
I began writing a journal in 2003. I wanted to record my feelings and also the events leading up to the inevitable breakdown of my 27-year marriage to Gordon. I wanted my children to understand how hard I tried to fix the relationship and why, in the end, I could no...
by Julie Townsend | Nov 13, 2021 | My Story
Gordon was a ‘poor me’ victim type of narcissist. He sighed, huffed and puffed and rubbed his face a lot. This gesture expressed his whole attitude to life! It’s funny now but not at the time, it drove me mad and had such a detrimental effect on our...