by Julie Townsend | Dec 15, 2021 | Parental Alienation
How does The Narcissistic Father Use His Children? With thanks to Sam Vakin who explains it beautifully. The narcissist sees his children in four ways:- Competition – Competing for attention, the time and resources of the primary source. This can lead to hatred and...
by Julie Townsend | Dec 1, 2021 | Parental Alienation
This article from this website explains what parental alienation is and how to deal with it. Coping with Narcissistic Parental Alienation Narcissistic Parental Alienation syndrome refers to the process of psychological manipulation of a child by a parent to show fear,...
by Julie Townsend | Dec 1, 2021 | Children
These videos explain the effects of a narcissistic father on his children. It is important to realise what has happened to you and to understand how it affects the rest of your life and your relationships. The first video explains coercive control and how it works in...
by Julie Townsend | Dec 1, 2021 | Letters
In January 2000 I wrote this about what I saw when Gordon interacted with the children. I was so upset. I found the nearest piece of paper and scrawled down my feelings. At the time I had no idea he was a covert, malignant narcissist. The way he treated the children...
by Julie Townsend | Nov 18, 2021 | Journal
Introduction I began writing this journal in 2003. I wanted to record my feelings and also the events leading up to the inevitable breakdown of my 27-year marriage to Gordon. I wanted my children to understand how hard I tried to fix the relationship and why, in the...
