by Julie Townsend | Dec 1, 2021 | Letters
In January 2000 I wrote this about what I saw when Gordon interacted with the children. I was so upset. I found the nearest piece of paper and scrawled down my feelings. At the time I had no idea he was a covert, malignant narcissist. The way he treated the children...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 15, 2021 | Letters
The narcissist liked to manipulate situations with the children whereby he could make the claim that, “Mum won’t let us” and “Mum won’t let me see you.” One example of this is an incident which happened on New Years Eve 2007 in...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 13, 2021 | Letters
This is a letter written to the narcissist after hosting Christmas for him and his family during Christmas 2007. The abuse from him was worse than ever. I was ignored and invalidated. He really seemed to enjoy it! The interesting things was that his relative from...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 13, 2021 | Letters
Christmas and New Year 2007 was hell! For some stupid reason I decided to host his family for a meal and family get together and I agreed to take the children to a New Years Eve Party with his relatives. I was trying to make things as normal as possible for the kids...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 25, 2021 | Letters
This letter describes what my life was like living with the narcissist. It was written in January 2007. The letter describes events throughout my life with the abusive narcissist. Reading the letter in the knowledge that I was living with a narcissist shows me that...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 24, 2021 | Letters
The narcissist hated me going to the gym. He moaned and complained about it non stop. He insulted me, verbally abused me and tried to get the children on his side by making them think I was ‘always’ at the gym. The ‘always’ exaggeration by the...
