You Are Verbally and Emotionally Abusive To Me

You Are Verbally and Emotionally Abusive To Me

This letter was written in February 2007. I gave the narcissist a copy of a book The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans.   I had no idea I was being abused by a covert narcissist. At the time we were still going to counselling at Relate but it turned out...
Narcissists Cold Attitude To Children

Narcissists Cold Attitude To Children

I wrote this after watching the lack of  genuine, warm affectionate interaction that the narcissist had with the children. I found the nearest piece of paper and scrawled down my feelings at that moment. I never once heard him tell the children  he loved them. He was...
How The Narcissist Lies and Manipulates

How The Narcissist Lies and Manipulates

This episode shows how the narcissist lies, manipulates and uses my daughter and me to arrange a weekend in Amsterdam with the new supply. He met his new ‘friend’ as he called her around February 2007. When this weekend took place I had no idea he had a...
Parental Alienation Is Child Psychological Abuse

Parental Alienation Is Child Psychological Abuse

What is Parental Alienation in a Nutshell? The Narcissist I had the misfortune to marry has alienated by children from me. They believe everything he has ever said about me. The believe I am crazy, a mad woman, mentally deranged and beyind hope, up the pole and heaven...
Narcissist Explains Why He Abused Me

Narcissist Explains Why He Abused Me

This letter written by the narcissist is full of lies, blame and contradictions. It is a fascinating insight into the mind of a narcissist as he tries to justify his abusive behaviour towards me. Apparently the narcissist wanted me to be more like him! Friday 4Th...