by Julie Townsend | Sep 21, 2021 | Letters
In 2005 I was sick of taking the blame for the narcissists pathetic life. I was a verbal punch bag, taking the blame for all his weaknesses, failures, insecurities and everything else! He literally did NOTHING of his own volition. I was his verbal punchbag, mother,...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Divorce
This letter from the narcissist tries to make out that he is so keen to work on the relationship. It is all massive lies and pretence. It is all part of the facade. When we attended counselling at ‘Relate’ the narcissist simply used it as a way of...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
This was written in February 2007, I am telling the narcissist to communicate by letter and that I won’t take anymore abuse. Of cource this was a waste of my writing time as the narcissist is never going to stop being a narcissist. “You win G! There is NO...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
This was my attempt to describe the type of relationship I would have liked to have had. The writing shows what was missing in the relationship with the Narcissist. In short everything was missing. “Forced with the prospect of 40 + years in this relationship...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
I wrote to the narcissist – “I feel erased. I don’t exist to you.” The date I wrote this is not recorded. This explains how I felt living with the Gordon, the narcissist. At the time I did not know I was living with a fragile, vulnerable, covert...
