Letters to G

Over the years I have written down my feelings as I have struggled with the effect G’s behaviour has had on me. 

I have moved through despair, confusion, and anxiety to anger and depression.

These writings express my feelings at the time about what it was like living with G – the narcissist. 

Narcissists Don’t Love Their Children

Narcissists Don’t Love Their Children

The narcissist cannot love anyone and that included their children. It is all facade management by the narcissist to make everyone think he loves his children. Narcissists are not capable of empathy.  The narcissist claims in writing on a couple of occasions to care...

Narcissists Lies Abuse Smearing Triangulation

Narcissists Lies Abuse Smearing Triangulation

Divorcing a narcissist is a nightmare. Divorcing a narcissist when you don't know they're a narcissist is even worse!The narcissist  left in May 2006. An account of that incident is described in my journal here. I had no idea what I would be up against.  I had no idea...

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is Impossible

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is Impossible

The narcissist wrote a letter pretending to be a doting and caring father. There are quotes from his missive on the right. In reality the narcissists using of the children as tools of manipulation and control started immediately. In fact it started as soon as they...

Perverted Texts From The Narcissists Sick Mind

Perverted Texts From The Narcissists Sick Mind

The narcissist found a new supply a few months after he left because, he said, he didn't want to be on his own. In February 2007 he met the new appliance BB who he called his 'friend'. Whereas I did not even contemplate a relationship for over a year. I focussed on...

Facade Building By The Narcissist

Facade Building By The Narcissist

This is the letter G the narcissist wrote to present the facade that he wanted to see the children. It is all lies! It's all a facade!Text Version "September 2006 Gordon’s Letter about Wanting Contact With Children Reassessed after the Holidays. I would like to spend...

Abusive Texts From The Narcissist

Abusive Texts From The Narcissist

Not satisfied with abusing me verbally, emotionally, not content with laughing at me, sniggering, mimicking, ridiculing etc. the narcissist also likes to vent his anger, venom and hatred of me in texts and e-mails You can read some of them here which I downloaded from...

Read More About Narcissism

 

a story of narcissism
Autophagy is the body's way of cleaning out damaged cells, in order to regenerate newer, healthier cells.
the legacy of narcissism through the generations
narcissism primary sources from gordon ashton
divorcing a covert narcissist is hell
parental alienations by narcissists
letters to a narcissist to try to change them
texts from a narcissist
learn about narcissists and how to recover