by Julie Townsend | Sep 21, 2021 | Letters
In 2005 I was sick of taking the blame for the narcissists pathetic life. I was a verbal punch bag, taking the blame for all his weaknesses, failures, insecurities and everything else! He literally did NOTHING of his own volition. I was his verbal punchbag, mother,...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
This was written in February 2007, I am telling the narcissist to communicate by letter and that I won’t take anymore abuse. Of cource this was a waste of my writing time as the narcissist is never going to stop being a narcissist. “You win G! There is NO...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
This was my attempt to describe the type of relationship I would have liked to have had. The writing shows what was missing in the relationship with the Narcissist. In short everything was missing. “Forced with the prospect of 40 + years in this relationship...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
I wrote to the narcissist – “I feel erased. I don’t exist to you.” The date I wrote this is not recorded. This explains how I felt living with the Gordon, the narcissist. At the time I did not know I was living with a fragile, vulnerable, covert...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 19, 2021 | Letters
This letter was written in February 2007. I gave the narcissist a copy of a book The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans. I had no idea I was being abused by a covert narcissist. At the time we were still going to counselling at Relate but it turned out...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 11, 2021 | Letters
This letter written by the narcissist is full of lies, blame and contradictions. It is a fascinating insight into the mind of a narcissist as he tries to justify his abusive behaviour towards me. Apparently the narcissist wanted me to be more like him! Friday 4Th...
