by Julie Townsend | Oct 19, 2021 | Divorce
On the 4th February 2008, eighteen months after Gordon left he was still playing games of control and manipulation using the money that we had in the solicitors account. He used the children as weapons in his strategy and tried to get me to agree to half custody and...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 17, 2021 | Divorce
In 2006 the narcissist had finally left. I still had to have contact with him and, for the sake of the children I tried my best to make things easy and ‘normal’ but I was no longer willing to put up with abuse. Every time he collected or dropped the...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 12, 2021 | Divorce
Smearing and Lies! In this letter from Panonne the narcissists solicitors, they say that the narcissist has told them that the divorce petition was served on him in July when they were served by the court on June 18th 2007. He lied. The narcissist tells his...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 6, 2021 | Divorce
Divorcing a narcissist is a nightmare. Divorcing a narcissist when you don’t know they’re a narcissist is even worse! The narcissist left in May 2006. An account of that incident is described in my journal here. I had no idea what I would be up against. ...
by Julie Townsend | Oct 5, 2021 | Divorce
The narcissist found a new supply a few months after he left because, he said, he didn’t want to be on his own. In February 2007 he met the new appliance BB who he called his ‘friend’. Whereas I did not even contemplate a relationship for over a...
by Julie Townsend | Sep 28, 2021 | Divorce
Not satisfied with abusing me verbally, emotionally, not content with laughing at me, sniggering, mimicking, ridiculing etc. the narcissist also likes to vent his anger, venom and hatred of me in texts and e-mails You can read some of them here which I downloaded from...