This was written in February 2007, I am telling the narcissist to communicate by letter and that I won’t take anymore abuse.

Of cource this was a waste of my writing time as the narcissist is never going to stop being a narcissist. 

“You win G!

There is NO getting through to you.

You are perfect. I am mad if this makes you feel better, fair enough.

You can have the kind of divorce you want where the wife can’t wait to get rid of the husband.

For the children’s sake I tried to make it so we could make joint decisions. But you have made it impossible.

You asking me to put up with you (you are perfect remember) is impossible for you to see that your attitude and behaviour is abusive.

Neither of us is prepared to move.

I am willing to discuss anything with you whenever you wish to.

BUT I WILL NOT initiate any further discussions as to me this is inviting abuse.

You will no longer be invited to take part in joint family events for this too is inviting abuse.

Communication by letter might be best. If this doesn’t work solicitors might be best.

As I said I am not ignoring you –just protecting myself.

Please keep this for reference.”

 

Videos

Videos

The Narcissist In Action These videos were filmed  by me when my son was born. They capture the dynamics and the hatred for each other that the Ashton family has. John verbally, emotionally and psychologically abused his wife their entire married life. She had no idea...

A Crash Course In Narcissism by HG Tudor

A Crash Course In Narcissism by HG Tudor

"Simplicity is the Ultimate Sophistication" Leonardo Da Vinci  HG Tudor offers the best, most straight forward  and most accurate explanation of what narcissism is and how the different behaviours of the narcissist serve the 'prime aims' as he calls them. The work of...

Bullying Siblings 2010 Letter To Gordon

Bullying Siblings 2010 Letter To Gordon

This is what happens when your children witness you being verbally and emotinally abused their entire life. They become bullies themselves. My youngest daughter complained that her brother and sister were verbally abusing her and bullying her. I was shocked and...

Admitting Triangulation Using the Children

Admitting Triangulation Using the Children

In this text the narcissist Gordon admits to using the children in a triangulation against me. He uses them to threaten and manipulate me. He used the standard abusive language he uses regularly. "Everyone thinks its dispicable that you use the children like this.."...

Call With My Sister in 1996

Call With My Sister in 1996

This is a transcript of a conversation I recorded with my  sister who was, soon after diagnosed as having schizophrenia. She later had the diagnosis of Bipolar made.  At the time of this my sister had a new baby.  She was hospitalized before and after the birth and I...