This letter describes what my life was like living with the narcissist. It was written in January 2007. The letter describes events throughout my life with the abusive narcissist. Reading the letter in the knowledge that I was  living with a narcissist shows me that...

The narcissist hated me going to the gym. He moaned and complained about it non stop. He insulted me, verbally abused me and tried to get the children on his side by making them think I was 'always' at the gym. The 'always' exaggeration by the narcissist was a common...

In January 2007 Gordon and I were still going to counselling at Relate.  It made no difference to him. He used the counsellor as someone to tell about how mad, crazy, deluded, metally ill and beyond hope I was. He told me that Carol the Relate Counsellor told him that...

The narcissist called me 'mad', 'mad woman', 'crazy', 'mentally deranged' and 'beyond hope', 'up the pole' etc. etc.  out entire married life. He liked to say those things in front of the children which worried me, with good reason as it turned out. (July 2021) Little...

By August 2005 I knew things were over. I was sick of the verbal abuse, ridicules. sniggering, gaslighting and all round sarcasm and negativity from the narcissist. The narcissism left twice and moved into rental property. Each time he moved back in because the...

The narcissist by his own omission did not want children. During one conversation he told me that I should thank him for being a sperm donor. The way he was with the children clearly showed that he did not want children and has no clue what being a parent means. The...