I wrote to the narcissist – “I feel erased. I don’t exist to you.” The date I wrote this is not recorded.
This explains how I felt living with the Gordon, the narcissist.
At the time I did not know I was living with a fragile, vulnerable, covert narcissist.
The drawing was made by my 3 year old daughter.
” I Can’t Get Through To You
You define my experiences and seem to fail to grasp that.
I am a person with my own reality.
I feel erased.
I don’t exist to you.
Trying to maintain a relationship with you leaves me exhausted and in mental anguish and emotional pain.
You don’t want to hear me, understand me, nor even WANT to understand me.
You have to be right.
You tell me what I think and who I am.
Imply I am mad when I don’t agree.
You feel attacked when asked a question.
You don’t seem to hear me.
You avoid responsibility.
You are unable to be straight with people.
The typical passive aggressive man has not dealt with anger and power issues with parents and replays them in the current relationship.
I have a right to everything I feel. “
G’s Proposal For Dividing Up The Money – (26th Dec 07)
Solicitor Re Divorce – (2nd Oct 07)
Vacating Leigh Way
Lies About Moving House For His ‘Family’
Manipulation and lies are regular behaviours used by Gordon. In the email below written on 27th September 2007 which is nine months after he met his new 'friend' the narcissist tells bare faced lies and attempts to build the facade that he is moving house for the...
Equity in The Solicitors Account – (21st Sep 07)
G’s Text Messages To Me – (May 07 – Jan 08)
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